Why Texas Homes All Feel the Same (& What’s Missing)
- Cheyenne Ely
- Aug 20
- 3 min read
Updated: Sep 12
Have you ever walked into a home and thought... "Have I been here before?"
Chances are, it's the same cookie-cutter design: knotty laminate hardwood floors, uninspired farmhouse fixtures, and gaudy range hoods.
When you're building or renovating a home, picking materials, finishes, and fixtures is overwhelming, but the actual options you're given? Often UNDERWHELMING.
Then, it's time to furnish. After all that decision-making, it's tempting to grab the viral influencer rug and call it a day.
Let me be real: Decision fatigue is SO common. It's not unusual to feel a pang of regret once the
dust settles (literally), and you're left to overanalyze your (very expensive) decisions.
If this has been your experience (or you're hoping to avoid it), keep reading. I'm breaking down how to make your home feel warm, grounded, and actually yours through smart, meaningful design choices.
The Problem: Cookie-Cutter Interiors
Texas homes often prioritize trends over your story, and it leaves a gap between the home you bought and the life you want to live.
The kitchen might have shiny cabinets and quartz countertops, but it doesn’t make you want to cook.
The living room is spacious but somehow cold, because it wasn’t designed for the noise of family game nights, Sunday morning coffee, or friends spilling in for wine!!
HERE'S THE REALITY I SEE IN HOMES ACROSS TEXAS:
ONE
Predictable Layouts
Spaces are designed to look good in photos, not how families actually live.
TWO
Standardized Finishes
Cabinets, lighting, and flooring often feel generic and temporary.
THREE
Minimal Architextural Interest
Flat ceilings, basic trim, and cookie-cutter moldings leave rooms feeling sterile.
FOUR
Lighting That Doesn't Serve the Space
Standard recessed lights rarely highlight what’s important or create mood.
FIVE
Limited Texture & Material Variety
From builder-grade flooring to standard countertops, spaces often feel flat and disconnected!
SIX
Missed Indoor-Outdoor Connection
Patios, windows rarely make the most of views, sunlight, or natural flow between inside and outside.
SEVEN
Unused Corners & Nooks
Bonus rooms, nooks, and hallways are left empty instead of designed for purpose.
Psst! Wondering why all-neutral interiors didn't make the list?
We like those over here. An all-neutral palette doesn’t always mean boring! It's all about elevating your materials selections.
How We Do It Differently
I’ve always believed a home should feel like it’s lived in, not just looked at. Every room should reflect the people who live there, with details that bring warmth and personality!
Here’s how to approach your home like a designer, even if you’re not ready for a full renovation:
ONE
Design for Real Life
Think about how your family actually uses each space. For example, a kitchen island isn’t just for cooking - it’s where homework gets done, snacks are grabbed, and friends gather. Tip: Arrange your island seating to maximize interaction and prep space.
TWO
Layer Textures That Feel Intentional
Mix soft linen drapes, warm wood finishes, and tactile rugs (i.e. avoid printed rugs when you can!) to create depth. Tip: Add one unexpected material (like a leather ottoman or woven basket) to give your room some personality without overcomplicating.
THREE
Mix Coastal & Primitive Elements
Use light, relaxed colors and airy layouts, then anchor the space with a rich wood table or vintage piece. Tip: Start small - replace a nightstand or console with something that feels both effortless and grounded.
FOUR
Create Flow with Natural Light & Views
Place furniture/decor to highlight windows and patios. Tip: Bring in greenery near windows or sliding doors to blur inside and outside lines.
FIVE
Upgrade Small Details
Swap out standard knobs, pulls, and fixtures for pieces with character. Tip: Even small changes, like a brushed brass hardware or a unique door handle, can elevate a room instantly.
FAVORITE HARDWARE BRANDS:
SIX
Create Spaces for Memory-Making
Designate spots for everyday life - kids’ art displays, a cozy reading nook, or a weekend wine spot for friends. Tip: Think about where life happens and plan a corner or a table to celebrate it!
SEVEN
Invest in Longevity
Choose finishes and furniture that will last - both in quality and style. Tip: Don’t chase trends or Amazon links - create a neutral foundation and layer personality through accessories.
Some of my go-to brands for quality, character-rich selections are:
After four years of designing for clients who value beauty and function, I’ve realized I want to lean into spaces that celebrate the lived-in, the loved, and the truly bespoke. There’s something coming that will make this feeling even more accessible, and I cannot wait for you to see it!
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